Bern Mendez from YourGreatLifeTV helps women find their soulmates, and it works! He believes in big epic love and helps women get there. I love inviting wonderful men on the podcast. Bern’s heart is as big as the world. I hope you love the conversation as much as I loved having it. I am proud to call Bern a dear friend.
What Bern Shares:
- Why he works with women (hint: women will save the planet)
- How standards work: differentiating between what would be nice to have, vs what you need
- There IS sacrifice in love
- His view of sex on the first date
- How to find a good guy (yes, they’re out there, and you can find one if you get uncomfortable/do the work)
What You’ll Hear:
- Why he works with women & not men (3:28)
- What is women’s #1 relationship problem? (5:30)
- Should women lower their standards? (6:55)
- What happens when we raise our own standards for how we show up in the world (8:40)
- Why haven’t you met The One? (11:40)
- How to remove obstacles to your feminine energy (14:00)
- It’s important to work with the body for lasting change (17:40)
- What can happen when you have sex on the first date: your heart & vagina vs your mind (19:15)
- Is it the woman’s job to say “let’s wait?” (25:50)
- Where are the decent guys? (29:30)
- The 5% rule (31:45)
- Navigating online dating (32:15)
- Look within to find a good guy (32:59)
- Go places where there are men (34:12)
- One of Bern’s success stories (39:30)
- Who gets a love coach? (42:40)
- You can change, no matter where you are (44:24)
